trying to conceive

Tadi kat ofis ummi borak2 dgn sorang kawan seprojek ni. A chinese guy, Ho. Dia mcm terkejut nampak ummi. Dia kata lama tak nampak. So ummi pun cite lah ummi operate lg cam dulu. Cerita punya cerita, masuk bab pilih doktor dan hospital. Ummi ada dgr2 jgk dlm bln lepas bdk2 kat ofis ni ada bgtau yg dia pergi teman isteri dia jumpa doktor...

Ummi : eh your wife pregnant already eh?

Ho : No lah, we've been trying but no success. In fact since CNY last month her menses flow nonstop..

(oo no wonder la dia beriye tanya pasal jumpa doktor mana etc)

Ummi : oo yeke..so which hospital you go?

Ho : Gleneagles. Before this we went to Sunway MC but the doctor too many hanky panky/business minded. So we decided to change hospital. Now we're satisfied with the current doctor - straight to the point. Later I also have to undergo some test like semen analysis...

Ummi : Good for you. And always give full support your wife. I know how she feels...

Lepas tu kami borak2 lagi..agak kesian sebab ummi pun tau apa yg mereka lalui. Walaupun berbeza punca masalah..hmm

Btw Ho ni baru sambut kahwin Dec 2009, tahun sama ummi kahwin..

Apa yg ummi dapat simpulkan,

1. Elok berjumpa doktor seawal mungkin/bila masing2 dah bersedia. Tak salah nak mencuba ikhtiar2 lain tapi jgn tangguh terlalu lama (mcm ummi...sob2)

2. Sokongan suami sgt penting. Emosi isteri ni paham2 je la kan. Tambah lg kbykn test2 yg mnyakitkan ini adalah di pihak isteri. Sokongan tak kira la dr segi emosi, kewangan, menjadi pendengar yg baik dsbg...

3. Kalau ragu2 dgn doktor anda, jgn malu utk dptkan kepastian drp pihak lain. Jika doktor tu masih diragui eg business minded(duit dah byk hbs tp tak ada kata putus), silalah tukar doktor/hospital ye...

Hmm apapun ummi harap semua pasangan yg sedang ttc bykkan bersabar dan inshaallah segala usaha akan berbaloi satu hari nanti.... :)


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